Archive for July, 2009
Tag Line for Future Site Redesign
Jul 27th
When I launched this Web site back in March of this year, it was a bit of an experiment. I felt inspired to start the site, and, upon doing some research, there seemed to be a need and an opportunity for disseminating mission prep-related material. In these first few months, the site has proved more successful than I could have imagined. The site averages about 50 visitors a day and continues to grow. I am profoundly grateful that so many of you have found the site informative and useful.
Since the site was experimental, it was probably, okay definitely, not designed optimally from the beginning. In these past few months, I have been aware of some deficiencies of the site through user comments and through Web analytics data. Therefore, I will be starting a site redesign soon, and I’d love to have feedback from all of you. If you have any ideas on how to improve the site, from site design to site content, please contact me and let me know how I can do better.
Some of the things I plan to address are:
- Reduce the clutter and make the site design more clean and simple.
- Improve the navigation to make prominent the most used content and features.
- Make the site Mac browser compatible for both Safari and Firefox.
- Develop a logo for the site, including a tag line.
Need Your Help with the Tag Line
It is with this last item, the site tag line, that I specifically seek your help today. Web site usability expert Steve Krug says a tag line should “actually say something about what you are (“The world’s best source for ice axes”), not a meaningless aphorism (“Taking you ever higher…”). And if at all possible, find a tagline that tells me what differentiates you from everyone else.”
With that in mind, below are some tag lines that I have come up with. Please vote for the tag line you like best, or, if you don’t like any of them, there is a space at the bottom of the poll to write in your own suggestion. Thanks so much for the help!
Mission Presidents
Jul 23rd
Mission presidents are called to watch over and lead a mission (a specific region and its missionaries), generally, for the space of three years. They are responsible for the spiritual and physical well-being of the missionaries in their mission. The mission president and his wife manage the affairs of the missionaries in the mission and are both set apart as full-time missionaries during their service.
Mission presidents have many duties, including:
- Welcoming and providing orientation for new missionaries.
- Interviewing departing missionaries (an important part of missionary work is the personal growth of the missionary himself/herself).
- Assigning mission companions and the areas where missionaries will work.
- Traveling to and presiding over zone conferences where training and interviews of missionaries take place.
- Reading weekly letters from each of the missionaries in the mission.
- Making sure that the housing and food provided for missionaries is clean and safe.
- Providing for the medical care of missionaries in case of illness or accident.
Relationship between Missionary and Mission President
Most missionaries develop deep respect and admiration for their mission presidents. Prior to their mission, though, many missionaries, including myself, don’t realize the special bond that will be formed between them and their mission president. Mission presidents are spiritually mature leaders under whose tutelage missionaries will grow and develop. Elder Quentin L. Cook said one of the “blessings of serving a mission are having the opportunity of being nurtured under the guidance of a mission president who has been called by inspiration.” (from Be a Missionary All Your Life, Ensign September 2008)
First Meetings with My Mission President
My first mission president, President Coburn, had a reputation for being very strict. (You may recall some of the strict rules in our Argentina, Rosario mission that I discussed in my post about preparation day.) I wasn’t too fond of the strict rules at first, but I eventually came to realize the blessings of those rules. I had a brief interview with my mission president upon arriving the in the country. He told me that he had been given my picture and other information from my missionary application, and that he felt inspired in assigning my area (the city of Parana) and my companion (Elder Loesener).
After about a month in the country, I had my first zone conference and accompanying interview with President Coburn. I had been having some disagreements with my senior companion, which I had mentioned in my weekly letters, as, perhaps, did my companion. President Coburn spoke very frankly to me at that time because, he said, he felt I could handle it. I felt honored by his statement, but those pleasant feelings vanished quickly as he “bajo la caña” (Spanish for “dropped the hammer”) on me.
My mission president told me to repent, to swallow my pride, to stop “kicking against the pricks”, and do better at following my senior companion, who was, in effect, my Priesthood leader. I went away from that interview fuming inside; I had never been spoken to in that manner by a Church leader. It took me about a week, but in time I realized that President Coburn was completely right. I tried to follow his advice and my relationship with my companion did improve. (I also learned a valuable lesson I would never forget about sustaining Priesthood leaders.)
I will always love and appreciate President Coburn for the things he taught me.
Sadly, I was only with President Coburn for 6 months when his term of service was up. But my new mission president, President Ontiveros, though a different type of personality, was equally wonderful. One thing that stands out most in my memory about President Ontiveros was a talk he gave on having your “eye single to the glory of God.” He gave a powerful sermon based largely on the Helaman chapter 5 where Nephi and Lehi are imprisoned and fire encircles them without causing them harm. Soon, in this chapter, a cloud of darkness overshadows their Lamanite captors.
President Ontiveros explained that these two events were physical manifestations of spiritual realities. Since then I have always remembered that a spiritual “cloud of darkness” hangs over us when we make bad choices. But when we choose the right and keep our eye single to the glory of God, we can withstand the fiery brilliance of God’s presence without being consumed.
Conclusion
Always obey, honor and sustain your mission president. He was called of God to preside over your mission. He will be one of the greatest influences for good in your mission, and you will develop a great love and bond with him. He will place you where you need to be, in areas and with companions that are inspired of God. Write good letters to your mission president every week and let him know how the missionary work is going in your area, how you are getting along with your companionship, and how you are personally progressing. By so doing, he will be better able to counsel you and help you become the best missionary you can be.
Mission Companions
Jul 16th
Mormon missionaries always work in companionships of two (occasionally three). The reasons for this are for spiritual and physical protection, but most importantly, because it is a mandate from the Lord.
Why Missionaries Travel in Pairs
The Lord has commanded missionaries, in D&C 42:6, “Ye shall go forth in the power of my Spirit, preaching my gospel, two by two.” Missionaries will be more powerful in their teaching if they work together in unity. As it says in 2 Corinthians 13:1 “In the mouth of two or three witnesses shall every word be established.”
Senior Companion
In companionships, one missionary, usually the younger or less experienced one, is the junior companion, and the other is the senior companion. I had a reader once email me and ask the requirements to become a senior companion. I told him that when a mission president thinks a missionary is ready for the responsibility and is prompted by the spirit, then he would make that missionary a senior companion. Therefore, how and when a missionary becomes the senior companion would differ from mission to mission, depending on the mission president and the prompting of the Holy Ghost.
My recommendation to this young man was to not worry even for a moment about getting “promoted” to senior companion status. I advised him to take President Hinckley’s counsel to “forget yourself and go to work.”* Just seek to be the best missionary you can be, and you will be an instrument in the hands of the Lord. Obey the mission rules, work hard, enjoy your mission, and it will be a success regardless of whether or not you are the senior companion.
Companionships Lead to Lifelong Friendships
Many missionaries will make friendships with their mission companions that will last a lifetime. Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, in his November 1997 Ensign talk titled, Valued Companions, said:
“Companionships also constitute the basic organization in the 318 missions of the Church. Just as the disciples of old, our more than 56,000 missionaries go two by two “into all the world” to proclaim the good news of the gospel. In this wonderful work of saving souls, there is tremendous fellowship and camaraderie. When Alma was reunited with the sons of Mosiah after 14 years of missionary service, he “did rejoice exceedingly to see his brethren; and what added more to his joy, they were still his brethren in the Lord.” Missionary reunions are still a great time of rejoicing.”
Companionship Inventory
Missionary companions are instructed to stay together always with reasonable exceptions for showering and using the bathroom. Missionaries are encouraged to learn how to work with and love their companions, but when you are with someone 24/7, it is likely that conflict may occur. When disagreements occur between companions, they are encouraged to try to work it out them themselves before contacting their district or zone leaders. Your mission president is also likely to ask, in interviews or through your weekly letters, how well you are getting along with your companion.
One thing missionaries are asked to do to keep harmony in their companionship and to quickly resolve disputes is to have a weekly companionship inventory meeting. In this meeting, mission companions should:
- Discuss their relationship and resolve conflicts.
- Talk through any challenges that might be preventing the two from working together in unity.
- Set goals to improve their relationship.
- Start and end with prayer so as to have the Spirit of the Lord present.
Learning to get along with your mission companion will be excellent practice for getting along with your eternal companion (your wife), and keeping harmony and love always in that relationship.
How NOT to Conduct Companionship Inventory
In conclusion, here’s a funny video I found on YouTube showing how NOT to conduct a companionship inventory.
*Actually, that quote is what President Hinckley’s father told him in a letter during his mission.
Missionary Name Tag
Jul 12th
The Mormon missionary name tag or badge is one of the most recognizable visual features our missionaries. On the one hand, though it is simple a name tag, while on the other hand, it is symbolic of the work missionaries have been called to do. It is a symbol of the Church they have been called the represent and of the Savior whose messengers they are.
My Missionary Commission
The missionary tag is a sign of the commission missionaries have been given. During my mission, several of my companions had a quote from Elder Bruce R. McConkie printed on a poster as a constant reminder of who they were and who they were representing. It reads:
I am called of God. My authority is above that of the kings of the earth. By revelation I have been selected as a personal representative of the Lord Jesus Christ. He is my Master and He has chosen me to represent Him. To stand in His place, to say and do what He himself would say and do if He personally were ministering to the very people to whom He has sent me. My voice is His voice, and my acts are His acts; my words are His words and my doctrine is His doctrine. My commission is to do what He wants done. To say what He wants said. To be a living modern witness in word and deed of the divinity of His great and marvelous latter-day work.
(From How Great Is My Calling, an address delivered while Elder McConkie was serving as president of the Australian Mission from 1961 to 1964, as posted on Meridian Magazine’s Web site.)
A Sister Missionary’s Name Tag
In researching what I wanted to say about the missionary name tag, I found the following story from Elder Robert L. Simpson’s talk in the May 1984 Ensign Magazine called The Simplicity of Gospel Truths.
“Few are aware of the pure Christian service being administered at refugee camps in Thailand and in the Philippines by our missionary sisters. Basically, these sisters are restricted to teaching the English language and Western culture, but there is a deeper teaching that takes place through their pure love and sweet attitude toward these displaced people.
The story is told of a young camp refugee from Cambodia who was relocated in California. He found his way into one of our Church meetinghouses because the name of the Church on the sign out front corresponded with the one he used to look at each day on the name tag of the wonderful missionary sister who taught him at the camp. People don’t soon forget acts of simple kindness. Pure love can transcend all differences.”
And finally, here is another reminder about the importance of the missionary name tag from Sister Susan W. Tanner’s talk in the May 2007 Ensign Magazine titled Daughters of Heavenly Father.
“Has your mother or father ever reminded you as you were leaving the house to ‘remember who you are’? What do they mean by that? ‘Remember that you are part of this family, with a reputation to uphold.’ And, even more importantly, ‘remember that you are a child of God and must act accordingly.’ Missionaries wear a badge as a constant reminder that they are representatives of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. This reminds missionaries to dress modestly and comely, to treat people with politeness, and to strive to have Christ’s image in their countenances. They must do these things because they wear that name tag, an outward sign of their identity.”
Prayer and Testimony
Jul 6th
The following is a story about promptings from the spirit, prayer, and testimony in missionary work that I received today from my brother, Elder John Smith, who is serving in the Canada Montreal Mission.
“When I first showed up in this area 2 weeks ago I was blessed to have the opportunity to work with an investigator who had just accepted the baptismal commitment just a couple of days before my arrival. His baptismal date is for July 18th and things are looking incredible. His name is Hector and he is originally from Mexico, but has lived here for 3 years or so. He has already acquired a testimony of the truthfulness of our message and continually tells us how he wants to share the spirit he has felt with everyone else. He is sincere and humble and it is the greatest blessing to be able to work with someone who has such a thirst for the truth as this man does.
We went over to his place to teach him the lesson of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, which is essentially the 4th article of faith in greater detail. When we showed up Hectors girlfriend asked if she could sit in and listen, to which we replied of course. They both sat through the entire lesson and the spirit was very strongly manifested throughout the course of the visit. At the end of the lesson my companion asked Melanie (the girlfriend) if she would like to be
baptized as well. She said yes and then she proceeded to tell us of an experience she had.
Throughout the course of Hector’s investigation Melanie has been skeptical of the whole thing. When Hector agreed to be baptized and to make the necessary changes to join the church Melanie was frustrated and told Hector that we were just brain washing him, and that we worship Joseph Smith and what not. Hector countered her attacks by bearing his testimony to her and telling her that if she really wanted to know if all of this was true that she needed to ask God.
She took his advice and prayed that night about all of these things and she said that she felt the holy spirit enter into her soul. She said she felt goose bumps. And so with that experience and our invitation to baptism she could not deny what needed to be done. She almost didn’t tell us about this experience of hers, and she probably wouldn’t have done it then if we had not invited her to be baptized. Luckily my companion acted upon that prompting because I was not planning on inviting her at that time, although I did have the thought come to my head briefly. Next time I will pay more attention to the spirit’s promptings.”
What a wonderful story of two men, Hector and the missionary, feeling the promptings of the Holy Spirit and bearing testimony. And as a consequence, a humble prayer was answered and another testimony was gained of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ.
Saving for a Mission
Jul 1st
The blessings of missionary work are infinite and eternal, though there are costs and sacrifices that must be made. As you saw in my last post, LDS Mission Cost, one of those sacrifices is the need for young men to save almost $10,000 to pay for their mission. And I do believe that, as much as possible, young men should pay for their own mission, because even greater blessing flow that way.
Paying for a Mission
This is what President Spencer W. Kimball said on the subject:
“Remember it costs money to go to the various parts of the world and preach the gospel. Remember, then, it is your privilege now to begin to save your money. Every time money comes into your hands, through gifts or earnings, set at least part of it away in a savings account to be used for your mission.”
A young man’s mission preparation consists of “preparing to finance his mission so it may be his own contribution, so far as possible. How wonderful it would be if each future missionary could have saved for his mission from birth. How wonderful it would be if every boy could totally or largely finance his own mission and thereby receive most of the blessings coming from his missionary labors.”
“Of course, if the boy is a convert in his teens, his years of saving are limited. If he lives in a country where the economic standards are low and opportunities are severely limited, he can still be governed by this policy so far as possible and do the best he can.”
President Kimball Speaks Out on Being a Missionary, New Era, May 1981
Tips on Saving Money for a Mission
- Start early. When my son was four years old I got him a piggy bank to start saving for his mission. Starting early will help you develop better money saving habits, and it will also help you let interest work in your favor.
- Find ways to earn money. Ask your parents, friends and neighbors if they have chores you could do to earn money for your missionary fund.
- Budget! Make a budget, or plan, for how much of the money you earn will be saved for your mission. Allow your self some money to spend on fun things too, but you’ll probably want to save at least 50% of each pay check for your missionary fund. And don’t forget 10% for tithing.
- Open a saving account. When you get old enough and want to graduate from the piggy bank system, opening a savings account will be a safe way to store your money and it will also allow you to earn interest on the money you have saved.
- Get a part-time job. When you get old enough, ask your parents about getting a part-time job. I got my first job working at McDonald’s when I was 16 years old. This was a great way for me to add to my missionary fund. If your parents don’t want you to work during the school year, see about getting a summer job.

- Talk to your parents. For many of these options, you will need your parents’ help, so be sure to work with them to develop a plan for how your mission will be paid for. Even if your parents can afford to pay for your mission, as President Kimball said, it is a good idea for young men and women to pay for some or all of their own mission.
Saving for Missions: Examples
The following are four examples of how young men are saving money for their missions. They come from Mission Made Possible, a New Era article in June 2004.
Adam Sessions, age 12, Morgan Park Ward, Chicago Illinois Stake. Adam’s plan is simple: “For every five dollars I get, I give two to my mission fund,” he says. He also always makes sure to pay his tithing. Starting at 12 might seem early, but Adam’s really excited that he has seven years to save for his mission. He’s not old enough to have a part-time job, but he does jobs for people in his neighborhood, such as emptying recycling bins, and shoveling snow from side walks. Along with his financial preparation, Adam has also set a goal to finish reading the Book of Mormon by the time he’s 13. He reads every day. 
Nathan Neeley, age 15, Westchester First Ward, Chicago Illinois Stake. Nathan started saving when he was 10. He began by delivering papers, shoveling snow, and mowing lawns. Now that he’s 15, he babysits for some of the families in his ward. After paying tithing, he puts away 10 percent of each paycheck for his mission. He’s had the desire to serve since Primary when he sang “I Hope They Call Me on a Mission.” “And when my brother went,” he says, “that made me want to go even more. It made a big difference for me. He set the example. He really changed his attitude toward life because of his mission.”
David Montoya, age 17, Orland Park Ward, Chicago Illinois Stake. David’s paycheck disappears into his mission fund so fast you’d think it was one of the coins he can make appear or disappear at will. A master of the sleight of hand, David turned his magic hobby into mission dollars when he started working at a magic store and later performing as “Magician Monte” at local restaurants and birthday parties on weekends. Now that he’s attending a local community college, he has a job as a bank teller and only does his magic show on the side.
“Your mission starts way before your mission,” David says, as he looks sage-like over the top of his glasses. He’s been preparing since he was 12, when he decided he wanted to go on a mission. Sacrifice and discipline are what David credits with his successful mission-savings plan. He started putting away half his paycheck when he was 14. At 17, he almost has all his mission money saved.
Anthony Haga, age 19, Rock Island Ward, Davenport Iowa Stake. Anthony’s first job was as a bagger at a grocery store on an air base. He saved 25 percent of his money for his mission fund at first. He later got a job at a car wash through a friend in his seminary class. He’s been working there ever since and has been saving half his earnings for his mission. A few months ago, however, Anthony realized he wouldn’t meet his goal if he maintained this saving pattern. He would have to step it up. So he cut his other expenses and started putting away much more money. And he counts it as a blessing of paying tithing that he also got a raise at work. He’s going to make it.
And it’s a good thing too, because he just got his mission call to Boise, Idaho. Because he’s been through saving for his mission, Anthony has some advice: “Be prepared to work for your money, but I can testify that when you work to earn as much as you can, then the Lord will take care of the rest.”





